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2:00 Who is really in the driver’s seat, logic or feelings?
6:17 We quickly review The Four Ingredients of a Good Relationship: feeling accepted, respecting and valuing your partner’s opinion, not telling your partner something they already know, and being nonjudgmental.
8:03 On this show we are going to talk about something very different: we are going to discuss personality types.
8:58 Our first section is called, “Why do we behave the way we do?” How is it that can someone’s personality feel so different than yours?
9:33 Dr. Marty describes what he calls “internal processors” versus “external processors”. How can we know the difference, and best respect and respond to these differences?
14:02 We get into talking in detail about different personality types.
16:50 Dr. Marty discusses personality types as talked about in the book The Four Tendencies, by Gretchen Rubin. The four types are Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels.
17:40 We start off with Upholders. What is this type like?
21:07 Dr. Marty now gets into discussion of the Questioners. Their number one question: “Why should I do this?” They have a lot of other questions, too.
23:58 Now we get into the third type: the Obligers. Dr. Marty talks about this type in detail.