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1:43 This show will be covering an email question and comment from a listener, plus finishing up our series on Healing from the Trauma of Infidelity. If we have time we will also be talking about the Myth that Will Ruin Your Life.
2:54 Dr. Marty shares an email he got from a listener. She remembers how Dr. Marty has referred to the idea of negative pivotal moments changing our lives. She wonders if it is possible to focus more on the positive pivotal moments of life change.
4:22 Dr. Marty recalls a negative pivotal moment involving his son, when his son was in kindergarten. He talks in detail about how it can be possible to intentionally choose, share, construct and create positive pivotal moments.
8:26 We hear about the online questions: “36 Questions to Build Emotional Intimacy” (or “36 Questions That Lead to Love”).
10:03 Dr. Marty talks about a pivotal positive moment that happened to him one day, walking in the mall.
11:02 We get into talking about the most destructive Myth that Will Ruin Your Life: “People Can’t Change.”
13:25 Dr. Marty reviews, in detail, the Five Stages of Healing From Infidelity.
14:20 We talk in depth about the last stage: The Integration Stage.
17:20 Dr. Marty reviews much more, in good detail, about what we have covered in our series on Healing From Infidelity.
20:00 We move into a new subject, and talk about anger in relationships. How do we deal with anger, so it doesn’t become larger than the relationship? What is really behind anger?
21:30 Dr. Marty demonstrates how anger is really an aggressive response to not feeling heard, to not feeling empowered, and to not feeling that the other person is relating to your concerns about what is going on.
22:53 Dr. Marty talks about the three things that happen when people get angry.