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Show highlights:

3:00 We make the assumption that people do things “to us”. What happens when we look more at intention?

3:55 How can we best approach someone to have a good, open discussion of an issue?

5:05 What are some of the gender specific ways discussions start off the wrong way? Dr. Marty talks about John Gottman’s research into how the “hard startup” of a conversion can unfold.

6:25 What about giving your partner the benefit of the doubt?

7:55 Sometimes we have “two pasts” looking at, talking to, and judging, each other.

8:40 How can we replace blame for a new understanding of what’s going on in the other person’s head?

9:15 There are two positive things that can come from talking about the past: acknowledgement and regret.

10:30 Understand before you ask to be understood.

11:12 Dr. Marty talks about “infidelity prevention”.

12:30 Dr. Marty talks in detail about the “Three Things” most important for infidelity prevention.

20:00 We review, in detail, the Five Stages of Healing From Infidelity.