Couples therapy and marriage counseling can help with communication, getting past anger, and reconnecting.
If your relationship can be saved, I can help you save it. Healing can begin now.
The main goal for couples therapy & marriage counseling is to figure out how to keep a couple together, whenever possible. During my 34 years as a marriage counselor, I have learned that there are many things we can do to help couples with problems.
What will we work on in couples therapy or marriage counseling?
We will work together on these three steps:
- We get the problems, issues, and resentments out in the open, and in a safe, productive place.
- We deal with the disappointments, resentments and anger.
- I will teach you how to build a new relationship – a relationship with trust, understanding, kindness, fun, and love. I will also show you how to rebuild your friendship and deal with different points of view.
Together, we can figure out what has gone wrong, and what it takes to rebuild your love. Click here to learn more.
If your situation is urgent, or an emergency.
In critical situations, I will do everything possible to schedule a same day appointment. Sometimes couples in crisis situations need immediate attention, if this is the case we can:
- See if a same day meeting is possible.
- Try and schedule an emergency phone session.
- If the first two possibilities aren’t available, we can see about scheduling a next day appointment.
What if only one person wants to come for counseling?
When your partner isn’t willing to come in for help with the relationship, it is even more important for us to talk. Click here to learn what you can do.
It is normal to have the jitters before making such a big step in life, but there is a difference between the jitters, and constant arguing and friction.
What I often find when couples come to see me for premarital counseling is that they tell me they love each other, and they want to be together, but they find themselves getting into fights more frequently. They keep hoping it will get better, but it just doesn’t.
In premarital counseling, together we can:
- Figure out how to bring back harmony and work on the miscommunication problems you are having.
- Learn how to handle the anger that has developed as a result of poor communication.
Click here to learn more about premarital counseling.
Dealing with infidelity is one of the most devastating experiences that a couple will ever face. Click here to learn more about how you can heal from infidelity in couples therapy.
There are many relationships that on the brink of divorce because of addiction. Click here to learn about the three steps to dealing with addiction.
Getting help in your relationship, at a New Jersey office near you.
As the founder of Your Marriage Counselor, I am dedicated to helping couples stay together. In order to reach this goal, I have asked several couples therapists to join me. They are located throughout New Jersey, and you are probably no more than 20 or 30 minutes from their offices. All of these therapists are experienced professionals who truly care about helping couples.
To learn more about these counselors, please go to the About Our Therapists section on this website. Please give us a call at 888-281-5850.
34 years of helping couples stay together
Ph.D. (Clinical Psychology)
Licensed Clinical Social Worker – #44SC00275900
Licensed Marriage & Family Counselor – #37F100094000
Dr. Marty’s Office is located at:
25 Oakbrook Place, Somerset, NJ 08873-2015